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Find the partner of your dreams, or if you already have a partner, make them feel sooo special that every day will be filled with love.

WELCOME TO SALLY AND HARRY'S ONLINE DATING REVIEW SITE AND SENSUAL STORE.

Here we check out the many dating sites and help you choose which one is right for you. The best find their way into the top ten list.

We also seek out the best books to help you to improve your love life, and for those who wish to spice things up a bit, we're developing a great new selection of accessories and clothing specially designed to make your lover's jaw drop. This and some other very exciting things are coming your way soon on SallyAndHarry.com.

Welcome... We hope you enjoy your stay.

xx Sally and Harry

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM HARRY

Five years ago I became another failed marriage statistic. I really gave it everything up until that point, but after 25 years I had no choice but to detach myself from my partner.

One should not apportion blame... Simply, we were making too many compromises to try to make our relationship work. Our kids had to put up with massive rows, and neither my partner nor I were able to function properly because we were not able to be ourselves and live in peace. My partner had been the victim of an abusive childhood and though I tried, I was never able to make things right for her.

After the split I felt very lonely and sad, being deprived of my kids. On a personal level I had to distance myself from my ex because of her domineering attitude so that I could find my true self again. Until that point I had lost my self confidence and self esteem because despite my best efforts, I was never good enough for my partner, and she often reminded me that I was not her type and that I would never stand a chance of finding someone else. She made me feel worthless, and yet she clung onto me.

After the split I got into internet dating. At first I came across as being desperate to have a relationship, so my early encounters didn't last very long, but with each successive liaison I became more able to value myself, and slowly I re-discovered the happy-go-lucky personality that had been suppressed for so many years. It took me two to three years and a half dozen relationships for me to learn to love myself.

During this period I learnt not to compromise and to feel good about myself, which enabled me to go for the best. Each successive relationship, and each in-between encounter on the internet was a really exciting journey of discovery for me. I loved every minute of it, and there were many many nights when I would be IMing until the sun came up with another exciting personality, often in a different country.

Internet dating became a voyage of personal discovery. It took me to other countries and gave me some wonderful memories and friends who I still keep in touch with now that I have found my perfect partner.

I'll write more on the subject soon, but for now I will leave you with my latest exciting news... My divorce finally came through last October. I got married four weeks later and am now living very happily in the United States with my beautiful wife who is one in a million. (I am British).

Internet dating will open up many doors for you, so if you are on the fence, take the plunge... You won't regret it!